Restorative Sleep Protocol™

Some people have forgotten what waking up rested feels like.

Clinical hypnosis with Kelly May, for people whose sleep has not responded to the standard approaches.

Let’s Talk About Sleep

A complimentary Sleep Conversation with Kelly May. Available virtually or in person in Toronto.

You get into bed tired, then spend the next hour wondering why you’re still awake. Or you fall asleep easily, only to wake in the middle of the night and start calculating how much sleep you could still get.

Perhaps you sleep through, but still don’t feel rested in the morning.

After a while, you start planning around being tired. You get through your responsibilities and wish you had more energy left for yourself. Even a quiet evening becomes a negotiation: stay up and enjoy it, or go to bed early and hope tonight will be different.

You don’t need to figure it out before we talk.

Your sleep may have changed during a difficult period and never quite returned to normal. It might have been unpredictable for so long that you can’t remember when it began.

You may already have tried quite a few things. Some helped briefly; others gave you one more thing to think about at bedtime.

In our first conversation, you can tell me what your nights have been like and ask questions about hypnosis. I’ll explain how I work and give you my honest view of whether my approach makes sense for you.

There’s no commitment to join the program.

The Restorative Sleep Protocol™

Clinical hypnosis with Kelly May, founder of Calibrated State.

The Restorative Sleep Protocol includes an individual assessment followed by six weekly hypnosis sessions. The structure gives us time to follow your experience and adjust the work. Sessions respond to what you report between appointments, including concerns that may become clearer as we go.

Before
Intake & Assessment
During
Six weekly hypnosis sessions
At the close
Review & Blueprint

Hypnosis uses focused attention and suggestions shaped around what you want to change. That might mean feeling more settled at bedtime or responding differently when you wake during the night.

This program is open to people with sleep concerns across different circumstances. You don’t need to be a leader or an athlete. We’ll discuss what’s appropriate for you during the assessment, including any medical care or other support you receive.

Poor sleep follows you into the day.

A task takes longer than it should. You reread something you would usually understand the first time. By evening, you have less patience for people you care about.

Research helps explain why “getting used to it” can be misleading. In controlled studies, adults restricted to six hours in bed each night for two weeks developed accumulating cognitive performance deficits. Their reported sleepiness didn’t increase in step with those deficits. Feeling accustomed to short nights didn’t mean their performance had recovered.

The degradation can also be measured against a familiar reference. After 17 hours of continuous wakefulness, cognitive performance is comparable to a blood alcohol concentration of 0.05%. After 24 hours, that figure reaches 0.10%.

The cost reaches employers as well. Sun Life’s 2026 Canadian workplace research, based on surveys conducted in December 2025, found that employees self-report an average of 6.9 hours each week in which they felt less productive due to poor sleep. For employees with severe insomnia, that self-reported figure rises to 11.8 hours. One in five Canadian employees meets the clinical insomnia threshold.1

At a national level, a 2023 RAND Europe study estimated that chronic insomnia disorder costs Canada approximately $19.6 billion USD (2019 dollars) in lost GDP each year, with an additional $10.7 billion USD in modelled population-level wellbeing losses. The same study found that people with chronic insomnia disorder lose between 44 and 54 productive days per year through a combination of absenteeism and reduced effectiveness at work.2

Over time, sleep deficiency also has implications for physical health, including blood-sugar regulation. These findings are reasons to take persistent sleep difficulties seriously and seek appropriate care.

For you, the immediate concern may be much simpler: you’d like enough energy left to enjoy the life you’re working so hard to support.

Sources
  1. Sun Life Canada, The hidden cost of poor sleep (2026), based on surveys conducted in December 2025. workplace.sunlife.ca
  2. Hafner et al., The societal and economic burden of insomnia disorder, RAND Europe (2023). Figures reported in 2019 USD; wellbeing losses modelled separately from GDP impact. rand.org
  3. American Academy of Sleep Medicine, Sleep Prioritization Survey (2023), U.S. adults. newswise.com

Your tracker may confirm the problem every morning.

About one in three U.S. adults now use some form of sleep tracker. In the American Academy of Sleep Medicine’s 2023 Sleep Prioritization Survey, more than half of those users reported changing their habits based on the data.3 The measurement is widespread. What to do with the information is less obvious.

If you already track your sleep, you probably have plenty of information about your nights. The score becomes another thing to check. A lower number may leave you anticipating a difficult day before you’ve noticed how you feel.

Sleep researchers use the term orthosomnia to describe a preoccupation with achieving ideal sleep measurements. In a published case series, clinicians described people whose concern about tracker results appeared to reinforce sleep-related anxiety. It doesn’t happen to everyone who uses a tracker, but it’s worth noticing when monitoring becomes another source of pressure.

Wearables can help reveal trends. Their sleep-stage figures are estimates, however, and need to be interpreted alongside your experience and any medical assessment. During the program, we use tracking when it provides useful information. Your experience during the night and the following day remains central. You don’t need to buy a device.

Why changing your bedtime habits may leave something unresolved.

You may already keep a consistent bedtime or avoid caffeine later in the day. Those changes can help, but persistent insomnia often needs more than sleep-hygiene advice alone. Clinical guidelines make that distinction and strongly recommend cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia, or CBT-I, for chronic insomnia.

There may also be a familiar response that continues even when the conditions for sleep have improved. Getting into bed brings on worry about the coming night. Waking briefly becomes a reason to check the clock and mentally rehearse tomorrow.

Knowing you’d prefer to respond differently doesn’t necessarily make that response easy to change.

Hypnosis uses focused attention and suggestions developed around the person’s experience. In this program, the work may address anticipation of another difficult night or the urge to stay mentally occupied when you want to rest. The assessment helps us decide whether these are appropriate areas to work on and what other care may be needed.

A client’s experience.

“For almost three years, I lived in the shadow of a 2:00 a.m. heart attack. Every night, my body relived that trauma, waking me at that exact hour in a state of panic. I tried everything to break the cycle, including sleep medication, but nothing worked.”

“Kelly’s methodology helped me retrain my mind to recognize that I was safe. Her approach is incredibly gentle and reassuring.”

“The transformation was steady and verifiable. My Fitbit data confirmed that my deep sleep increased from four hours to 5.5 hours in the first month, and I was averaging six hours of restorative sleep per night by the end of the program.”

“The Restorative Sleep Protocol didn’t just help me sleep. It helped me reclaim my life.”

— Ron RubinoffOne client’s experience. Individual responses vary.

What would better sleep give back to you?

What would change if you felt more comfortable going to bed, without wondering how long you’d lie awake? Or if waking during the night didn’t immediately leave you worrying about tomorrow?

Perhaps you’d enjoy dinner with friends without calculating how you’ll manage the next day. You might have more energy left for yourself once your responsibilities are done.

What matters to you guides our work and gives us something specific to return to when we review your progress.

How we work together

Before your sessions

You complete an intake and meet with me for an individual assessment. We discuss your sleep history and what you’ve already tried, including any medical assessments or care you’re receiving.

We also make room for what else is happening in your life, without assuming every sleep difficulty has an emotional explanation. Together, we agree on where to begin.

Throughout the program

Each appointment begins with a conversation about your experience since the previous session. Your feedback guides the hypnosis work that follows.

Brief weekly check-ins and sleep logs help us follow changes between appointments. You’ll receive materials selected for your program and email support between sessions.

At the close

We compare your current experience with your starting point, including how your nights feel and how you’re managing during the day.

Your Personal Performance Blueprint brings together what you’ve learned about your patterns and the approaches you’ve found useful. We discuss anything that still needs attention and appropriate next steps.

Sessions are available virtually or in person in Toronto.

Kelly May, founder of Calibrated State

Meet Kelly

I’m Kelly May, a Certified Consulting Hypnotist and founder of Calibrated State.

When someone comes to me about sleep, I want to understand what their nights are like and how much the difficulty is affecting their life. You don’t need to explain it perfectly or know why it’s happening.

We’ll speak openly about what you’d like to change and whether my approach is appropriate. If I believe another kind of support would serve you better, I’ll tell you.

Sessions are available virtually or in person in Toronto.

Your investment

$7,000 CADPlus applicable tax
The Restorative Sleep Protocol includes
  • An intake and individual assessment before your sessions.
  • Six individual hypnosis sessions, one per week.
  • Brief weekly check-ins and progress tracking.
  • Materials selected for your program.
  • Email support between sessions.
  • Your Personal Performance Blueprint.
  • A closing review of your progress and next steps.

The program usually runs over approximately six weeks of hypnosis sessions following the assessment. We discuss scheduling during your Sleep Conversation and adjust the pace when appropriate.

Your first Sleep Conversation is complimentary. If we agree to work together, you’ll receive an agreement and invoice. Payment is due before your first session.

Questions you may have

What happens in the complimentary Sleep Conversation?
We talk about your sleep and what you’d like to change. You’ll have time to ask questions, and I’ll explain how I work and whether I think the program may be appropriate. You don’t need to make a decision during the conversation.
What if I’ve had trouble sleeping for years?
How long it has been happening is part of the conversation, along with what you’ve tried and any assessments or treatment you’ve received. We consider those details before deciding whether to proceed.
What does research say about hypnosis for sleep?
Research has reported improvements in some studies, although the evidence remains limited by small samples and study quality. Research on hypnosis generally does not establish the effectiveness of this particular program. We discuss suitability individually and review your experience throughout.
Is this only for work-related sleep concerns?
No. We consider your sleep in the context of your whole life, including difficulties that began long before your current circumstances.
Do I need a sleep tracker?
No. We use your feedback and brief sleep logs to follow your experience. If you already have a tracker, its data may provide additional context, but buying one isn’t a requirement.
Will six sessions be enough?
Six sessions following the initial assessment provide the structure for the program. We review your experience throughout and discuss next steps at the close. Individual responses vary, and I don’t guarantee a particular amount of sleep or a fixed result.
What if I have a diagnosed sleep disorder?
We’ll discuss your diagnosis and current care during the assessment. Hypnosis doesn’t replace medical assessment or prescribed treatment. Some concerns may need further assessment before we begin.

Let’s talk about your sleep.

You don’t need to decide on a program today. Start by telling me what your nights have been like.

Let’s Talk About Sleep

Your complimentary Sleep Conversation with Kelly May.